My replacement is coming in next week. Somebody internal so not really a new person. Can't wait to pass the big bulk to him. To get to this point, it was not easy, a lot of political things has been going on but anyhoo...am glad. Although my future job is way to tough for me to handle but I will try my best :)
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Assalamualaikum w.b.t,
How are you? Hope you are doing fine. Topic of the day, marriage,kids, and things that grown ups do. Not sure whether you remember one of my squad, panther, she gave birth to a baby boy last week. Ina classmate kita pon dah deliver baby boy jugak (I think!!) awal bulan hari tu.
Shasha mesti ko ingat kan? (yg cute mesti la ingat ;p ) she's pregnant too, and due probably November kot.. Dah lepas dah zaman attend weddings, ni zaman nak melawat orang bersalin pulak. Even my ex roomate pon dah pregnant.
You know what? even many people in the office are getting into parenthood this year. When I first join last 3 years, there were few young guys and girls (including me). To date tinggal sorang je of the guys yang tak kahwin lagi, and none of the girls that have tied the knot. Trend ke? We are seeing more single woman nowadays. I'm sure that you probably have some of your girl friends yang sampai sekarang tak kahwin2 (me one of them).
Is it so hard to get married nowadays? financial aside, yes it is hard. I got in this in my inbox, forwarded by some girlfrens,
Top reasons why ladies today are still single??
1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have No money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11. The men, who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.
NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?
‘Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with.'
betul tak? many of it makes sense though...
If I was given a choice, what kind of man do I want? First off mestila somebody that like me or tolerate me the way I am. Bold enough to say, "Yes I like this fat and not so beautiful woman because of the way she is" (which I think nobody is that crazy to say that)
Ideally I would want:
1. Mualaf : He is probably more willing to practice Islam than those yang dah originally born Muslim (plus xyah rebut nak balik raya....;)
2. Anak yatim: ni pun senang nak balik raya (x yah rebut-rebut), and can avoid all the mak mentua saga ;p
3. Arkitek : so that he can build me a home that I design, where we would spend the rest of our life together....(macam Rashidi Ishak dalam CINTA) --> berangan x ingat!!
So if you think you have a friend that meets the criteria above, let me know..hehehe..:) Sure susah gile nak cari combination camni (name pon ideal list..) but truthfully speaking, asalkan dia terima aku seadanya dan sayang aku kerana Allah pon dah cukup baik.
Probably I'm going to umrah 15 Jun ni, pegi sorang je, tumpang mahram sape pon xtau.
Oklah, lain kali cite lagi k. Take care
Assalamualaikum...
