~hitam putih kehidupan~

things that i never will be able to tell face to face to a single soul, yes, i am a coward, unable to express myself, so?

Am having the time of the month, estrogen tak cukup (yaka?) hence a bit emotional (bukan vice-versa?) Entahla...Had period pain, dah dua hari...today my cramps are not as bad, but the back pain is getting worse. Not sure whether it is the real back pain, or camouflage by period pain. And at times like this I hope I have somebody that can help me ease the pain, I just need someone to rub my back.

Yesterday, I was on sick leave, food supplies was running low, I ran out of rice. Not in the mood to be creative. Despite the pain, I still need to gather some strength and go out to buy food. Pathetic, I know. But what can I do?

But when I think again, maybe I don't deserve any of it. Maybe Allah has not given it to me because it was not mine to begin with. I mean, what kind of burden would I be to a man, having to face my cramps month in and month out? What about this back pain that would never ever go away? I doubt if I am ever able to perform my duty as a wife, with a broken hips probably..hahahaha...

Seriously, if I am a man, I would not even consider taking myself as a wife, not with this condition. So how do I move on? Stop hoping for anything to happen. I take care of myself. No matter what happen. 

What you'll find here

Space to vent and to let out things that I can never share with any living things (human). I am not an animal person, so cat will not help ;p.

Personal experience and hopes, wishes and gratitudes and always reality that bites hard will be pen down and shared with anyone who cares to read.

Lavender is....

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born Muslim and trying hard to live like one as well. overweight physically and have been trying since forever to loose weigtht. loner and eventhough with a group of friends, will not say much unless asked. never been the centre of attention (apart from my figure that really stoods out!!) never been in serious relationship before due to the fact that I am not pretty and fat and not friendly. having said that a really good fren and damn good supporter.